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Better Than Sex Cake or Chocolate Caramel Poke Cake

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Chocolate. Caramel. Hot Fudge. Whipped Topping. Butterscotch Chips. This cake has it all and may almost be better than sex!

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“This cake is good, but it isn’t better-than-sex cake!” “Um, what?” Yeah, that was my reaction too when I was first told the same thing. 

One of my coworkers brought a similar cake in to share with the office many years ago when I was working at a doctor’s office in Florida. A few minutes later, as I was devouring the best cake I’d ever eaten, another coworker came to me and said that the cake wasn’t better than sex. 

She knew by the puzzled look on my face that I wasn’t aware that was the name of this cake. I had no clue why she was telling me this. Then we both started laughing. 

I knew I needed the better-than-sex cake recipe because it was an absolutely delicious dessert. It’s a sweet tooth’s dream mixture of moist chocolate cake with caramel, hot fudge chocolate sauce, whipped topping, butterscotch, and more chocolate. I’ve changed a few things over the years based on different tastes and what was available at the time.

The best part of this easy dessert recipe is how simple it is to make while still looking impressive for any special occasion with very little effort. And just like any classic poke cake recipe, there’s a lot of room for making this your own. 

PS: If you need a more kid-friendly name for the cake, you can call it Chocolate Caramel Poke Cake. At least, that’s a little more appropriate for children.

Topping Options

There are some options for the toppings on the cake. I prefer using butterscotch chips because I like the taste. But have also made it with some of the following with great results:

  • Crushed Heath candy bars (also called Heath toffee bits)
  • Crushed toffee candy bars
  • Reese’s peanut butter cups
  • Skor candy bars
  • Fresh berries
  • Dulce de leche
  • Crushed pineapple

Pro Tips for Perfect Poke Holes and Even Soaking

Use the rounded end of a wooden spoon or a thick skewer to poke holes while the cake is still warm but not piping hot — this helps the fillings sink in without tearing the crumb. Space your holes about 1/2 to 1 inch apart so each bite gets sauce, and avoid poking all the way through to the pan so the filling stays in the cake. When pouring sauces, tilt the pan slightly and pour slowly, guiding some sauce into the holes; let the cake sit for 10–15 minutes after pouring to allow the liquids to settle before adding the whipped topping. For the best texture, cool the cake to room temperature on a wire rack before refrigerating so condensation doesn’t make the topping weep.

Condensed Milk Option (Alternative Filling)

If you prefer a denser, extra-moist finish, swap the hot fudge or part of the caramel for one 14-ounce can of sweetened condensed milk poured evenly over the cake after poking the holes. Pour the condensed milk slowly and tilt the pan so it seeps into the holes; follow with a lighter drizzle of caramel or chocolate for contrast. This version soaks more uniformly and creates a slightly sweeter, creamier interior—perfect if you want a very gooey poke cake without making any homemade sauces.

Make-Ahead, Storage and Freezing

This cake is ideal for making ahead: assemble it, cover it tightly, and refrigerate for at least 2 hours and up to 3 days. For longer storage, freeze the un-topped cake (cool completely), wrap tightly in plastic and foil, and freeze for up to 3 months; thaw in the refrigerator overnight before topping. If freezing fully assembled slices, wrap each slice individually in plastic, then foil. Always store in the refrigerator once topped with whipped topping; keeping the cake airtight prevents the whipped topping from drying out or absorbing refrigerator odors.

Dietary Substitutions and Simple Swaps

To make this cake gluten-free, use a high-quality gluten-free chocolate cake mix or bake a gluten-free chocolate cake from your favorite recipe and proceed with the poke and topping steps as written. For dairy-free or vegan eaters, choose dairy-free hot fudge and caramel alternatives and swap Cool Whip for a stabilized coconut-based whipped topping; be sure to check labels on chocolate chips and candy toppings for milk ingredients. To reduce sugar slightly, use a sugar-reduced chocolate syrup and a light whipped topping, but note that the cake’s signature richness will be milder.

Metric Measurements and Ingredient Weights

For international readers and precise baking, use these conversions: one 9×13 pan cake mix (standard U.S. box) is approximately 450–500 g of dry mix; 1 cup semisweet chocolate chips ≈ 170 g; 11 oz hot fudge ≈ 312 g; 14 oz caramel topping ≈ 396 g; 8 oz whipped topping ≈ 227 g; 1/2 cup butterscotch chips ≈ 80 g. When swapping jars or tubs, measure by weight when possible for consistency, especially with sauces and chips.

Serving Suggestions and Presentation Ideas

Serve slices chilled or at cool room temperature with an extra drizzle of warmed caramel or chocolate sauce and a sprinkle of crushed toffee or chopped candy for contrast. For a party platter, cut into small squares and top each piece with a tiny dollop of whipped cream and a toffee crumb. This cake travels well when chilled—wrap the pan tightly and transport in a cooler for potlucks or picnics. For a festive touch, garnish with a dusting of cocoa or a few flaky sea-salt crystals to brighten the sweetness.

Flavor Variations and Easy Upgrades

Try swapping the chocolate cake base for a yellow or white cake mix and using dulce de leche and white chocolate chips for a caramel-white chocolate twist. Swap some of the hot fudge for peanut butter sauce and top with chopped peanut butter cups for a peanut-butter-chocolate version. For a boozy adult variation, stir 1–2 tablespoons of Kahlúa or dark rum into the caramel before drizzling (do not add to the whipped topping if serving to children).

Troubleshooting: Common Problems and Fixes

If the cake seems too dry after baking, make sure you’re pouring the sauces while the cake is still warm so they sink in; if dryness persists, increase the amount of sauce by 10–20% next time. If the topping weeps or becomes runny, refrigerate the cake until the topping firms up and use stabilized whipped topping or chill the homemade whipped cream before spreading. If the cake becomes soggy at the bottom, you likely poked through the pan—trim and repurpose any severely soaked edges for trifles or ice cream mix-ins.

Better Than Sex Cake FAQ

Can I make better than sex cake ahead of time?

Yes! This cake actually tastes even better when it sits for a few hours. You can make it the day before, cover it tightly, and keep it in the refrigerator until you’re ready to serve. The flavors blend together and the cake stays moist.

How long does better than sex cake last?

When stored in the refrigerator, this cake will keep well for about 3 to 4 days. Be sure to cover it with plastic wrap or foil so the whipped topping doesn’t dry out or pick up other fridge flavors.

Can I freeze better than sex cake?

You can! It’s best to freeze the cake without the whipped topping. Bake, poke, and pour in the sauces, then wrap the cake tightly in plastic and foil. Freeze for up to 3 months. Thaw overnight in the refrigerator and add the whipped topping and candy just before serving.

Can I make better than sex cake without Cool Whip?

Definitely. You can whip heavy cream with a little powdered sugar and vanilla until it holds stiff peaks and use that in place of Cool Whip. Just be sure to keep the cake chilled so the whipped cream doesn’t soften too quickly.

What variations can I try with this cake?

The classic version is made with chocolate cake, caramel, and hot fudge, but you can get creative. Try a white cake with strawberries and cream for a fruity twist, or add peanut butter sauce and peanut butter cups for a chocolate-peanut butter combo.

Better-Than-Sex Cake Step by Step

Ingredients

  • 1 box chocolate cake mix (I prefer Betty Crocker regular chocolate cake mix)
  • 1 cup semisweet chocolate chips
  • 11 oz hot fudge topping
  • 14 oz caramel topping
  • 8 oz whipped topping
  • 1/2 cup butterscotch chips

Preparation

Start the recipe by preparing the boxed cake mix according to the package directions using the recommended eggs and vegetable oil needed. Or you can use my recipe for Chocolate Cake if you prefer to make yours from scratch. Add 3/4 cup mini chocolate chips into the batter before pouring into a 9×13-inch pan. Bake the cake according to the directions, until a toothpick inserted comes out clean. 

Use the handle of a wooden spoon to poke holes in the finished cake. I find this works best while the cake is still hot.

Chocolate cake with holes poked in it in a metal baking pan on a wooden surface

Gently spread the hot fudge chocolate syrup on, allowing the cake to melt the chocolate sauce a bit if needed. Try to get some of it in the holes poked in the cake. Then pour caramel sauce on the cake doing the same.

Chocolate cake with holes poked in it covered with hot fudge topping and caramel topping in a metal baking pan on a wooden surface

Let the cake cool completely before spreading the whipped topping on the entire cake like frosting.

Chocolate cake covered with whipped topping in a metal baking pan on a wooden surface

Add another layer of hot fudge and caramel on top of the whipped topping. 

Chocolate cake covered with whipped topping drizzled with hot fudge topping and caramel sauce in a metal baking pan on a wooden surface

Sprinkle with the remaining mini chocolate chips and butterscotch chips. The cake can be served immediately and is good warm or cold. I like to keep mine in the refrigerator for storage and eat it cold.

Piece of better-than-sex cake on a white plate with a bite taken out of it next to a fork with the pan in the backdrop on a wooden surface (vertical)

Better-Than-Sex Cake Leftovers

Storage: Because of the whipped topping, leftovers are best stored in an airtight container or covered with aluminum foil or plastic wrap in the refrigerator. The cake will be good for 3-4 days and should stay moist because of the hot fudge and caramel throughout the cake. 

Recipe

Originally Published On: March 27, 2017

Last Updated On: September 22, 2025

Piece of better-than-sex cake on a white plate with a bite taken out of it next to a fork with the pan in the backdrop on a wooden surface

Better Than Sex Cake

Chocolate. Caramel. Hot Fudge. Whipped Topping. Butterscotch Chips. This cake has it all and may almost be better than sex!
Prep Time 30 minutes
Cook Time 30 minutes
Total Time 1 hour
Course:
Dessert
Cuisine:
American
Keyword:
cake
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caramel
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chocolate
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whipped topping
Servings: 12 pieces
5 from 4 votes

Ingredients

  • 1 box chocolate cake mix
  • 1 cup semisweet chocolate chips
  • 11 oz hot fudge topping
  • 14 oz caramel topping
  • 8 oz whipped topping
  • 1/2 cup butterscotch chips

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Instructions

  • Preheat the oven to 350F
  • Prepare the cake batter according to package
  • Stir in 3/4 cup chocolate chips
  • Pour the batter into a greased 9×13 pan
  • Bake for 35-40 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean
  • Immediately poke holes in the cake with the end of a wooden spoon
  • Spread about 2/3 of the hot fudge topping and 2/3 of the caramel over the cake
  • Cool on a wire rack for at least 30 minutes
  • Frost with the cool whip
  • Drizzle the remaining hot fudge and caramel over the whipped topping
  • Sprinkle the butterscotch chips and remaining chocolate chips on top of the cake
  • Store in the refrigerator and serve cool
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Nutrition Facts
Better Than Sex Cake
Amount Per Serving (1 piece)
Calories 485 Calories from Fat 144
% Daily Value*
Fat 16g25%
Saturated Fat 8g40%
Cholesterol 3mg1%
Sodium 545mg23%
Potassium 325mg9%
Carbohydrates 83g28%
Fiber 3g12%
Sugar 39g43%
Protein 5g10%
Vitamin A 58IU1%
Vitamin C 1mg1%
Calcium 107mg11%
Iron 3mg17%
* Percent Daily Values are based on a 2000 calorie diet.

All nutritional information is based on third-party calculations and should be considered estimates. Actual nutrition content will vary based on brands used, measuring methods, portion sizes, and more.

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30 thoughts on “Better Than Sex Cake or Chocolate Caramel Poke Cake”

  3. Marjie Mare

    5 stars
    I will make mine this weekend, maybe I will put my own touch, post on my blog and I will definitely give you the credit. Will let you know.

    Reply
  5. nicole

    if cake is better than sex, it brings up a lot of questions about whats wrong in your sex life lmao. but this cake looks incredible, and has my sweet tooth craving dessert right now

    Reply
  10. Nichelle

    This is on my menu for Sunday. I love anything chocolate and everything about this ooozes delicious. I’ve made this cake before, but I’m interested in trying this recipe. Yuum!

    Reply
  13. Courtney

    Ooooo that looks like one delicious cake! I’m all about baking this time of year. Nothing else to do when it’s cold lol. I will have to add this to my baking list!

    Reply
  14. Melanie williams

    Ooo love this cheeky post! I am going to have to try this cake, as chocolate and fudge are my kind of flavours for sure xx

    Reply

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